ual Exploration "Within Reason"...?

You made the vow when you were 15 to stay pure. Do you seriously think you will be able to respect yourself if you had oral or before you were married? If you are being pressured to have with your partner before your married and he knows about you wanting to keep your virginity then he isn't respecting you very much. Take it from someone who lost her virginity when she was 15 i wish i hadn't and i respect you so much for keeping it this long.